October breeeeeeeeeeezed right on by. Why do I feel like this keeps happening? Time needs to take a break and let me acclimate.
This month has been filled by numerous early morning walks (multiple 13K+...!) in the gorgeous weather we've been having, as well as coffee dates with friends, relaxing trips to the beach, organizing and participating in a newly forming young adults group from the fellowship I attend, interviewing for new staff at work, an this past week, a much needed vacation to Ha Noi and Sa Pa.
Out of everything that has been happening that has been seemingly "major," there are some specific events that have been on my heart that I've wanted to share.
One morning I was out walking with a friend and we got caught in a downpour. We ducked under a tarp where some people were selling food, to wait out the rain. While we were standing there, we saw two older women pushing a very old man in a wheelchair. They didn't stop but kept walking in the pouring rain, obviously cold. An approaching motorbike slowed down and stopped next to this three-some. A man in his 30s or 40s was driving with a young boy, his son probably. The got off the bike, opened up the seat and pulled out two rain ponchos to give to the group. He also gave them his umbrella. I didn't hear any words being exchanged, just this man covering the older man in the wheelchair with the poncho, and helping the women get situated and on their way again. The man and boy got back on their motorbike and headed on their way.
I was so touched in seeing this act of service. In Vietnam it is interesting because it is a very communal culture where everyone takes care of one another, especially the older people in the family. But when it comes to public displays, it is more common to see the "every man for himself" attitude displayed: motor accidents, robbery...people often stand by and watch, not doing much to help. It warmed my hear to see this man act so selflessly, giving up his own comfort for the sake of these other people. Watching this exchange also gave me hope for the future generations of Vietnam. This young boy saw his father act this way. The role of a father is important in every culture, and in Vietnam the family dynamic is immensely effected by the involvement or lack of involvement of the father. Having such a positive, impacting display of selflessness will most definitely leave a lasting impression on this young boy and will help mold him into a better man.
Thank you Father for your ultimate example. Let us watch you and follow your ways and directions.
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